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A first look at The Ideas I Keep Quiet, a new eight-week journal, now out on Amazon: the three moves it is built on, and why a spark needs room before it needs a verdict.
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17 October 2026
15 September 2026
Why do I keep my ideas to myself?
An idea arrives, you look at it for a moment, and you put it away before anyone can see it.
What is usually going on
Keeping an idea quiet is usually a form of protection. An idea that is never said out loud cannot be laughed at, argued with or found lacking, so it stays safe and untested at the same time.
The quiet has a cost. An idea that never gets any attention tends to wait at the back of your mind, and the fear around it can seem to grow the longer it waits.
An idea does not need an audience to get started. Giving it a little private room first, by naming it, naming the fear that keeps it quiet and taking one small step, is a very different thing from announcing it to anyone.
Three small things to try this week
- Write one idea in a single plain sentence, with no polishing.
- Next to it, write the fear: “I am afraid that…” Seeing it written down often makes it smaller.
- Choose one step that takes about ten minutes and needs no audience, and do only that.
Where to go next
Where this leads
The Ideas I Keep Quiet
An eight-week guided journal for giving the ideas you keep quiet a small, private place to exist, three short lines a day.
On the Journals page this sits under “I say yes when I mean no, and I swallow what I mean to say.”
Not quite this one? Two other places to begin:
- The Life I Keep Postponing — An eight-week guided journal for turning someday into done, one small task at a time.
- The Things I Don’t Say — An eight-week guided journal for hearing what you have been holding inside, three lines at a time.
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Do I have to share my ideas in the end?
No. The journal is a private practice and nothing you write needs to be shown to anyone. Sharing is a separate decision, for another day.
What if my idea is silly?
Silly ideas are welcome here. The page is not a judge. It simply gives an idea a place to exist, so you can look at it properly.
What if I never act on any of them?
That is allowed. The aim is to take each idea seriously enough to look at it, name the fear and take one small step, not to turn every idea into a project.
A journal is a quiet space for reflection, not a substitute for professional medical, psychological or therapeutic advice. If anything here brings up more than you expected, please pause and speak to a qualified professional or someone you trust.